I used to love the “Fall Back” daylight savings time–until I had a baby. Suddenly my carefully crafted bedtime routine (and WORSE, my precious morning sleep time!) is out the window, because while I’m on new time, my little one’s internal clock is still an hour ahead.
What to do about this little dilemma? Here are a couple ideas:
Be Consistent at Bedtime
Before you choose a strategy to change baby’s bedtime, resolve to have a consistent routine for him every evening. Whether it’s bathtime, rocking, and bedtime or just a soft song and a kiss before snuggling down in the crib, make sure you give your baby that transition time so he knows its bedtime. Babies really seem to respond to this! I’ll talk more about bedtime routines (and how they worked for us) in an upcoming post.
Adjust Naptime
If you’re brave enough to tinker with naptime, you could risk waking your baby early or letting her take a little catnap later than usual to adjust her to her updated bedtime. According to the book Sleeping Through the Night young babies typically go about two hours between naps, so waking your little one two hours before new bedtime could help you get her down at the right time.
Move Bedtime… Slowly!
If you decide to shift bedtime itself, it might help to do it slowly. If your baby is used to going down at 7 and the time change means his body clock says “bedtime!” at 6, put him down at 6 the first night. Transition slowly (you can determine the gap, whether it be 5 minute of 15 minute blocks) each night until you have your new bedtime ready to go.
Move Wakeup Time
This is likely to be much harder than moving bedtime. At night, babies are already tired from a long day, but early daylight savings time risers will probably be pretty rested and may resist going back to sleep.
Our little bun used to wake up at 7:30 every morning (pretty nice!)–too bad the daylight savings time switch means that is now 6:30. So, how to get that time change adjusted for your little sweetheart?
I’m not a fan of leaving baby to cry–that often just makes them worry and fuss even more. Instead, try training them to sleep longer by making that extra awake time boring and soothing. Go into her room and rock her without making eye contact or interacting (cooing, talking, etc.). Just quietly rock her. Hopefully she will drowse or even fall asleep. You may be able to lay her back down, but more likely she will need to be rocked to stay asleep. You’ll probably have to repeat this for quite a few days to get any potential results.
If a large block doesn’t work, try to get her to sleep for any extra amount of time. If she naturally starts moving her wakeup time back as you do this, try to add five minutes more each day until you reach the wakeup time you want–but keep in mind that once she is well rested, she’s going to wake up… so don’t even bother trying to get her to sleep until noon! That’ll have to wait until the teenage years…
Any of you shy mamas have sleeping tips for us? If so, do tell!
xo,
Annie
photo: Fall Maples by Patrice Dufour
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